The payment methods scammers want you to use
The story can change. The payment path often gives the scam away.
Watch the money request
A fake bank employee, fake police officer, fake romantic partner, fake grandchild, fake tech-support worker, or fake investment coach may all push different stories toward similar payment methods.
- Gift cards
- Cryptocurrency
- Bitcoin ATMs
- Wire transfers to new recipients
- Payment apps to strangers
- Courier cash
- Cash hidden in packages
The household rule
No one in the family uses these payment methods because of a surprise call, text, email, popup, video, or online relationship without independent verification and a trusted-person pause.
Script to use
"Our family does not pay surprise requests this way. I need to call my bank and a trusted person before I do anything."
Why this rule is easier
You do not have to decide whether every story is true. You only have to notice that the payment method is unusual for the situation.
The workbook includes a never-pay-this-way checklist, before-moving-money decision page, and scripts for calling a trusted person first.
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